Adult Ally and Accomplice Network
We are building a world that does not prioritize adult authority over youth autonomy. We believe in reciprocal learning between youth and adults to bridge generational gaps, promote mutual respect and understanding, and strengthens community bonds.
Use our Calendly link here to schedule an in-person tour (preferred) or virtual orientation and tour. This vibe check meeting will be with a RE:Frame Adult Accomplice who will take the information back to the core team for Fist to Five voting.
If you are inquiring about an Adultism Training, fill out this training inquiry form before meeting.
ENTERING A YOUTH-LED SPACE
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PREPARE
JOURNAL
What is my tone of voice with adults vs young people?
How do I practice body autonomy with adults vs young people?
How do I make decisions with adults vs young people?
What expectations do I have for adults vs young people?
OBSERVE
How long have adults talked since a young person spoke?
How are my physical movements and expressions impacting the conversation?
Am I physically showing equal attention and curiosity towards what a young person is saying?
Did I ask to share my opinion or thoughts?
Am I cutting young people off mid-sentence?
Am I expressing myself as a savior using I statements to describe the accomplishments of a young person?
EXPECT TO...
See young people with as much value and experience as adults.
Pay young people for their time, thoughts, and work.
Build payscales and partnership rooted in an asset-based approach focused on strengths and values.
Give Respect and Love, not earn it. Regardless of age.
Ask curious questions to learn more. Not sound curious to be right.
Learn when to be quiet. Learn when other voices need to be heard before your own.
Not see each other as enemies, but a community against colonial white supremacist capitalist patriarchy.
See no “Future Leaders”. Young people to be seen for their current leadership skills and abilities.
Hold no assumptions, only ask questions.
